ANGER ISSUES

By Michael Chidubem

Anger is a natural human emotion, one that every person has felt at some point. It can erupt in the heat of conflict, disappointment, or injustice. Even God, in His righteousness, expressed anger. From the Old Testament accounts of His wrath against sin (Exodus 32:10) to Jesus' anger at the money changers in the temple (Mark 11:15-17), Scripture affirms that anger itself is not a sin. However, what we do with our anger matters deeply to God.

Ephesians 4:26 gives us clear instruction: “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.” This verse doesn’t forbid anger. It acknowledges its existence. What it warns against is allowing anger to take control and lead us to actions or thoughts that dishonour God. Letting anger fester invites bitterness and division, both in our hearts and in our relationships.

Ecclesiastes 7:9 adds another layer: “Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger resides in the lap of fools.” When anger becomes our default response, it clouds judgment and invites folly. Reacting hastily often leads to regret. Scripture urges us to respond—not react—with wisdom and restraint.

Proverbs 14:29 echoes this wisdom: “A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man promotes folly.” Patience, born of humility and discernment, shows spiritual maturity. On the other hand, impulsive anger causes chaos and damages trust.

James 1:19-20 offers practical guidance for daily living: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” Anger that stems from pride, offense, or self-interest distances us from God’s character. Instead, we are called to pursue peace, patience, and understanding.

Finally, Proverbs 16:32 reminds us: “He who is slow to anger is better than a warrior, and he who controls his temper is greater than one who captures a city.” True strength is not in domination, but in self-control. Mastery over one’s spirit is a sign of wisdom and strength in the eyes of God.

Conclusion: Anger is not inherently sinful. It is part of our God-given emotional makeup. But Scripture consistently warns against uncontrolled or hasty anger. We are called to reflect Christ even in our frustration: to pause, to pray, and to respond with grace. In a world quick to explode, let us be those who are slow to anger, rich in understanding, and committed to righteousness.